At 5:12 PM, Jen Wilson
At 5:13 PM, Jen Wilson
what you're going through with kaitlyn is the identical situation i was in with elliott that very first day you started potty-training with kaitlyn the first time, that hot summers day when you, danielle and i met at the park by my place (the day we figured out the lawnmowers and tree-waterers do their thing noisily on wednesdays). i'd tried almost everything except punishment for intentionally going against what he knows is the right thing to do, and danielle suggested trying time-outs, and although i'd way rather reward good behavior than punish bad behavior it did the trick and he was fully trained within two days. just sayin'.
and as for jinxing - happens to me too, every time i facebook about molly sleeping great or elliott staying dry all night or nobody being sick for so long -BOOM!- that's when it hits the fan. so it's good that you said all that "off the record". it'll be fine. i'm glad to hear it's going so well :)
i wish nich would put up wainscoting in our house, i love it so much. i can't wait to see the baby's room all done, and even more - I CAN'T WAIT TO MEET YOUR BABY!!! i can't believe it's only 3 months away? where has the time gone? i haven't seen you nearly enough, that's for sure!
long enough comment? i think so.
At 10:09 AM,
You'll hate this post:)
My belief is once you start potty training, you do not go back. Get rid of the pullups - stay in the big girl panties - bribe and give rewards. If Kaitlyn figures out that she only needs to try for 2 weeks and then gets her own way, she'll (not you) have control over the situation. If she has an accident, I'd leave her wet for awhile, so she becomes uncomfortable enough to remember to go to the bathroom. (not trying to be nasty, but if she is wet and cold, then she will understand the concept better). You could have her wear rain pants in the house to protect the furniture......
I used to take the boys first thing in the morning and every few hours to the bathroom to lessen 'the accidents'. The house rule was that everyone had to try (including mommy) before we went out. I tried to make it a game and have a bit of fun. Also, used lots of encouragement/positive reinforcement.
Any moms with babies around, for her to see that babies wear diapers, but not big girls?
She will do fine.......love hugs for all.
De-lurking here! (I'm friends with Jen W)
Hi. My son looks to be the same age as your daughter and we're having terrible potty-training issues. Same thing as you. Won't go in the potty at all. Accidents all day, doesn't care AND doesn't get motivated by rewards.
We also have 8 month twin girls and so I have no energy to clean up after him all day. Sigh.
I appreciated reading your comments.
1. Liliana and Kaitlyn are SO SIMILAR. I know exactly what you're up against and I know that YOU NEED PRAYER. Ho boy. I hope it goes well for you. Best advice I can give is BE CONSISTENT and DON'T GIVE IN (for 13 more days) because goodness, kids with the Braam gene are STUBBORN like no other. Other than that, the reward thing is the best.
2. Yay for a nursery! I'm envious you get to do one. :) (In a happy-for-you kind of way.) Can't wait to see photos!!
3. I hope the girls room thing keeps going well. *knocking on wood for you* (And yea, I hate that blogging about something going well and then it backfires!)
4. Silly Nick. But awesome you have such a handy husband!
Can't wait to see photos!!